You, on the other hand, are a man who is capable of eating just as much as she can during period â¦ Daddy Elon needs to figure that ish' out. I couldn't tell you if he was really comfortable with it, or if we were just super horny teenagers [laughs]. With one partner, we called it caveman sex or primal sex. Read on to find out! Periods are different than using the restroom. Tell him, with your words, what it is that you like and what you want him to doâ¦ Sure its natural, when i have the flu im disgusted by the fleghm i cough up, i dont try to tell other people how beautiful and natural it is. Ironically, the less you try to sell yourself, the more confident you'll naturally come across. I would hate to think that anyone (and I know that some do) would feel the need to go through â¦ You know, I'd still prefer not to see tampons in the garbage, but I don't mind some blood. Yes, as I've said, I'm fully aware they're natural. Tap here to turn on desktop notifications to get the news sent straight to you. Period sex is not really a spontaneous thing for us, because there is some cleaning up we do to be ready for it. organization supporting Jewish women's wellness. I do not have sex during my period, and that decision is rooted in my Jewish spiritual practice, as well as all of the learning I've done about my body and my cycle -- from hippie, woo-woo, feminist menstruation literature [laughs]. For the first day or two, it's probably not going to happen because I have dysmenorrhea and am in excruciating pain. Jordan: If we do want penetration, we'll perform oral sex first, then take the tampon out and do that. We drew hearts and swirls and wrote each other's names. Arenât women so lucky? As you'll see, a lot of guys not only don't think it's a big deal, but some even think that it's more intimate. and physically backed away from me. It didn't bother me. I was kind of disappointed and told her I was on my cycle and she said, "Well, that's what tampons are for.". (Many of â¦ It's nothing to be afraid of. Fortunately, it's not a problem for us. It's generally impolite for a man to talk about anything relating to his penis e.g having a urethra infection while women can talk about periods among male friends in great detail just fine. = "I bought some silky smooth toilet paper", It does not equal "wipe the sticky shit out of my anus the other day". I see that as more of a thing to do around ovulation, which is when I feel like I really want sex. Its natural and also fucking disgusting just like periods. I'm a feminist, and I'm pretty well-informed -- I grew up in a family of women, and had a lot of frank discussions with them -- but I think she could sense my confusion, because I'd never come close to having period sex at that point. [laughs]. -- Sally, 38, and Diego,* 45. Extra gross points for those who go the whole day like this due to being busy/in class/working. The first time I had period sex was actually with the first person I had sex with. It's just a period. "I got some really good tampons today." I've had sex with previous partners while I had my period, but I never enjoyed it. 6. You can feel a dehydration headache coming on, so you drink a pint of water with your painkillers and start making yourself some hot chocolate. Basically, we're all a â¦ Talking to Your Husband About Your Period Cramps. (I don't want to get pregnant, so I use double barrier protection during that time.). PMS stands for pre-menstrual syndrome. PMS isnât your period. The thing is, having sex during my period actually helps me. 5. Every serious partner I've had since then has also been OK with it. It's really primal. There's also a small chance that heavy flow is a sign of menorrhagia, a term used to define periods that are so intense, they keep a woman from doing her usual activities. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts, OP's Mom is a classy lady and not a whore. -- Jordan,* 28, and Chelsea, 28, Jordan: I remember, probably two or three months after meeting each other, I got my period on a night we were supposed to meet up. Our periods bring out the DIY in us. Hormonal birth control can help decrease the amount of flow a woman experiences, as can certain pain relievers. Some women find period sex is the only thing that gives them any kind of reliable relief from monthly, godawful period cramps. Remember, the worst thing you can do is ask and then not deliver. The first time we were sleeping in the same bed while I had my period, he started to initiate sex, and I told him it was my time of the month. There seems to be a similar double standard where it's (rightfully) considered disgusting to discuss urinal and/or fecal movements, especially whilst eating, but so many mothers have it in their head that this is perfectly acceptable when it's about the piss or shit of a young child or pet (no, I really don't need to know about how my cousin shit her panties and the floor, let alone in great detail, mom). Since then, we haven't really talked about it. I think communication is key. Here are 59 things all men need to understand about periods because all of us ladies are f*cking over the ignorance: 1. Men of Reddit, what do you think periods feel like? Gross, or just another way to conserve water? Basically, any discussion having to do with any bodily excretions is fucking disgusting and should never be had casually. I was in an abusive relationship, and my ex-partner made me feel really ashamed and dirty about it. ... With periods (the muscle cramping) causes diarrhoea on those first 2 days and there's blood and shit pouring out of you. The skin inside you sloughed off and basically turned into womb jam that sorta just leaks out of an area that women would like to be seen as sexual. So you don't like to hear someone talking about tampons/pads? See how ridiculous that is? Acting like a bitch because you have to take a shit is very different from having a period. Instead, ask. I'd never had sex on my period before, with either men or women. Be an Advocate for Period-Positivity. 14 Men and Women Get Very, Very Real About Period Sex, Sign up for membership to become a founding member and help shape HuffPost's next chapter. ©2020 Verizon Media. Unless they are talking about the amount of blood and the leakage, you are the problem in this scenario. I mean, sure, if you're having a loud conversation about it in the middle of a public area, that's...weird. So is shitting. That would mean not having sex for two weeks, and I'm not OK with that. It's not an excuse to do whatever you want." It was a fantasy he had always had. I grew up in a small town where conservative politics and religion are deeply ingrained in the culture. It's still one of the most beautiful, connecting, sex-positive experiences I've ever had. These accounts have been edited and condensed. So at the very least, talking to my husband about my period is a good form of punishment. Michelle: We’ve been together for about a year and a half, and we typically have sex two to three times a week. The guys pay more attention to a womanâs smile, eyes, hair, lips, breasts, hips, or legs. Diego: It's just nicer to wait. Matt: We might as well only get one really dirty. Find out what will make her feel better. A quarter of British men believe they have âman periods,â according to a new survey, reported by The Telegraph. Read on for some true tales of period sex. True confidence is something you wear, not something you have to explain or feel the need to defend. A lot of the family planning laws in Judaism, and ideas about avoiding sex during menstruation, are steeped in patriarchal texts about impurities, but to me, I really read it as a much deeper message. If nothing else, though, props for trying to imagine the pain we go through. A lot of partners I've been with since have been squeamish about having period sex at first, but once we try it it usually goes really well. Here's how guys picture period cramps, according to Reddit. Many men think PMS is the period itself, but itâs not. I don't fetishize it -- it's just a different kind of sex. -- Sarah, 29. How bloody is it, really? Stretch marks are something we all have to deal with. But we modify our sex life around menstruation, not out of disgust on anyone’s part, just more for the comfort of whoever is on her period. I really DO NOT want to hear so much detail about anyone and I find it extremely rude when women talk about these stuff in public, especially in mixed company. It's one thing if someone's like, "Um, blood makes me queasy." You change your tampon, shower, and you're fresh and ready to go. "I was initially put off by it more than he was." I openly announced that I had my period, and the guy was into it. Those moments right before you do it for the first time, when you know itâs about to happen, are really exciting! I mean, it can be kind of strange. Lmao. -- Margot, 22, and Matt, 22, Margot: We have a period towel. I just think your imagination runs wild after hearing one talk about it. I also didn't get my period for a while, because I had eating disorders. One might feel ashamed if somebody catches one on the toilet. My period had started, but I didn't know it, and he had a horrible reaction. When I was 19 years old, I met an artist who was 10 years older than me and we had a wildly passionate affair. I have noticed lately that heâs starting to feel the effects of age. My boyfriend doesn't even mind fucking me while I'm on my period. I mean, we wash it every time, but it's kind of like our sacrificial altar. "I think girls get mixed up because of how how people dress on TV," says Matthew. It's hard to pinpoint what makes period sex different, but it's kind of ineffable. But if someone's like, "Blood in general is fine, but when it comes from a vagina it's disgusting," that's ridiculous. The main point here is to not assume what she needs. He grabbed a handle of whiskey and washed his mouth out in front of me. "A lot of adolescents get these 'blow out' periods, and they have no idea that they're too heavy -- or that there are things they can do to help control them," said McGuire. If you've got the tampon in, it's no big deal. I kind of forget that some people are really disgusted by it. "She has to deal with it, so there's no reason why I should run away and hide." To add to the war imagery on AskWomen a girl described the toilet bowl during this time as 'like World War 1 trench' I wouldn't mind if sometimes we made love during those days, but generally, I feel it's better as a time of relaxation. Add your voice! 1.3k. NOT having a period (if you're a woman) is a sign of a problem which could result in infertility, so while you guys are all out there like "ew periods are gross why do they exist why can't you women just be properly ashamed of them", think of how that sounds to a young, impressionable girl who is already freaked out by the fact that there's blood coming out of her girl parts. Periods are disgusting and it is impolite to talk about them casually Not sure how unpopular this is in the sub, but many, many women argue that periods are 'natural' and men only find them disgusting because they're immature. "What if our cycles aren't the same, and we don't have sex when we have our periods? Margot: Before Matt, I had had period sex, but it was not positive. We're all very primal when you get down to it, and some men share just HOW strongly they feel about your vagina smell.. 1. But after that, it helps with the cramps. Dirty Talk. It was gorgeous. For others...not so much. I was never fully relaxed. "If someone's like, 'Blood in general is fine, but when it comes from a vagina it's disgusting,' that's ridiculous." But I shouldn't have to feel ashamed. We would rendezvous in her studio. We just handle the mess by doing lots of laundry. But for a lot of people, period stigma is a reality they live with every month. Then do it. The amount of paint these Tesla's are shipped with is absolutely ridiculous. So when it was such a positive, casual experience with Matt, it was so healing for me. But when he does, itâs like the end of the world. Men generally love to stare at a beautiful woman or do a double take when a lady catches their eye. Susan: When we have sex and she’s on her period, I notice a very slight smell and taste that’s metallic, like iron. I agree. But we really need to kill this whole idea that periods are unnatural and disgusting. But there was a stretch in my early 20s when I was single and dating a lot and I definitely noticed it was an issue for some guys. I've had sex with previous partners while I had my period, but I never enjoyed it. When you have sex with a man, someone else's body part is literally inside your body. He did once get a bit grossed out -- and concerned -- when he saw clots coming out while we were having sex, but so long as we talk about these things openly with each other, we're golden. Not sure how unpopular this is in the sub, but many, many women argue that periods are 'natural' and men only find them disgusting because they're immature. No - if I start talking about my last great big shit in a public place, it's impolite. If you find nature so appealing, then i hope you follow through. I really don't feel comfortable having sex during my period, because I just don't feel attractive or sexy. Well, they will probably make her feel fat for wanting to do such a thing. Menstruation may be a basic bodily function, but it's loaded as hell in our culture. Periods are awful, inconvenient, dirty, uncomfortable, excruciating, exhausting, and you aren't supposed to talk about them, which only makes it worse because you have to â¦ This whole idea that if a man is disgusted by it he is immature is bull. Read on for some true tales of period sex. Not consciously (unless sheâs free bleeding or leaking, in which case she needs to get to the bathroom! But I also don't think there's anything somehow repulsive about it. Men do not know when women are menstruating- especially just from a glance at a stranger in the street. Usually women aren't being detailed about it. She usually wants to avoid receiving anything, including oral, during her period. I am the founder of an organization supporting Jewish women's wellness, so I think about this topic a lot. -- Yvonne, 29. During that time, I focus on pleasuring her. Close. It’s definitely messier then, but I’ve never cared. A period lasts anywhere from two to seven days. We pee in the shower. She will feel rejected or hurt and then seek to heal that pain by hooking up with a new guy. Over on Reddit's AskMen, guys opened up about how they really feel when they have a crush, and it sounds like they turn into piles of mush, too. All rights reserved. Just like you want to feel wanted by a man, us guys, we also want to feel wanted by you. "Some guys think, she's mad, but I'm not wrong, she's on her period. "It's just nicer to wait." I was never fully relaxed. *Names with stars have been changed to protect anonymity. Admit it â youâve done it. When I come, I feel such relief. Her period is heavy, and just makes her disinterested in sex. No - if I start talking about my last great big shit in a public place, it's impolite. It feels more playful. One Reddit user's post suggests that women do. It's about giving my body that restful time. But if you taste it, it's just for a fraction of a second. There's just a different energy there. Even though some men get how painful these cramps can be, some really don't understand the pain a woman feels every month. Throw in sex (or not) and things get even more heated. Anne: We used to have intercourse on my period with no issues, but I switched from the pill to an IUD within the last year, and that screwed things up. It just feels more natural for both of us not to do it then. It's the scent of lust. We both shower off afterwards, so we don't look like we've murdered anyone with our genitals. All you can think about is curling up in bed alone. Damon Dahlen/Huffington Post/Getty Images, Register for free to get the Insider newsletter, events and more. Margot: I'm more sensitive, sexually. "I think of my period as a time when I'm really turning inward." Don't feel pressure to wear revealing or tight clothes just for guys' attention. In fact, according to a global survey conducted by Dove cosmetics, 96% of women donât consider themselves to be beautiful. Unfortunately despite the fact that they are totally common and normal they are often a source of insecurity for many women. When she s on her period, just keep in mind that this would only last for a couple of days. I know people are grossed out by it, and I guess I kind of get it. It's fun. Having said that, he didn't want to talk about it for this article. Nope, we just get to feel crazy and crappy for at least a week before the main event begins. Dont shower, dont brush your teeth, don't have any medical procedures. It's us having sex as animals. Get over it mate. Its fucking gross. However, by day three or four we got back to a more reciprocal approach. Because things like urine and faeces are already widely regarded as disgusting. We canât control the hormones. She's really the first consistent girlfriend I've had in my life, and one of the things that, I don't want to say it was a fear, but that I thought about, is what if our cycles aren't the same, and we don't have sex when we have our periods? Today is National Voter Registration Day! If you don't get it, you just don't get it. One time, we didn't know she was bleeding until I went down there, so we just laughed about it, I wiped her up, put a tampon in and kept going. If you don't like it don't listen. Weâve been forced to use rolled-up toilet paper upon discovering that our period just started. I don't go so far as to not touch, and if I were in a committed relationship (which I'm not now) I would certainly snuggle and spend time with my partner, but I won't have sex or share my body in that way. So every time I had my period, I felt like my body was doing something wrong. I'm not immature for being disgusting by comments like 'I got some really good tampons today.' ... we do â¦ We fell into our routine. BuzzFeed readers around the world told us what it looks and feels like for them. Shit is natural. ), but there are unconscious differences in attraction during different times of a womanâs cycle. 8. There just seem to be a double-standard whereby periods aren't. Vomit is natural. Archived. But if it's a lighter day, with no serious cramping on my end, we'll go for it! The bottom line -- if you think your flow is abnormally heavy, ask! You even proved the bullshit you are saying in your example. -- Scott, 36. "We started finger painting on each other. -- Anne,* 23, and Tom,* 24. "They just assume that everyone's [period] is this way." The site may not work properly if you don't, If you do not update your browser, we suggest you visit, Press J to jump to the feed. That would mean not having sex for two weeks." During those couple of days, treat her like a queen and try to do that with a smile on your face. She told me that when I did start my period, I would have to hide my feminine products -- even my razors -- somewhere in the bathroom so my brothers wouldn't see them. Spark some discussions! I became sexually active at 15, but didn't have period sex until college. It's the equivalent of saying 'I bought some silky smooth toilet paper to wipe the sticky shit out of my anus the other day,' and calling someone immature when they act disgusted. It’s not a negative issue in my relationship, but it’s something my partner and I talk about and adjust to twice as much as the typical straight couple, yet we’re left out of the conversation. 1. Diego: It's just nicer to wait. One time she announced she had her period. When she’s on her period, she usually doesn’t want to do anything. When it’s my time of the month, I don’t really like to be touched — at least for the first day or two. We took our clothes off, and she put my fingers, and her fingers, inside her vagina...and then we started finger painting on each other. I get my period. Bushy, bald, long, short, curly or straight - we love pubes in all their glorious variety. 5. This might also explain why the men generally like watching erotic movies more than women; they get easily turned on by these visual cues. Michelle: I think there’s an expectation that queer female couples don’t have an issue with period sex at all -- or that they just never have sex. But what do guys really think about stretch marks? The first time I did have period sex, I was drunk. If you talk about your period publically, that's also impolite. Some queer female couples are more comfortable than us with period sex, and some are less comfortable. 1. Periods are involuntary, can happen suddenly, could leak onto clothes, a part of puberty for girls, related to child birth and pregnancy, can be erratic and they even can cause health problems. My husband rarely experiences bad bodily feelings. Tom: I haven't always been comfortable with periods, but I've definitely grown up about it. By then I was much more comfortable with my period because I had talked about it with friends and read articles that reassured me it is OK. Just because having any conversation loudly among strangers is rude. -- Michelle,* 23, and Susan,* 25. And I think we have an advantage over guys, because, you know, we're girls. Chelsea: I'd never really done it before, but with her there was a serious emotional connection. It's exactly the same principle. While having a heavy flow is relatively common (and most women tend to bleed more in the first few days), if you find yourself needing to change your pad or tampon more than every two to three hours, or if your period lasts longer than seven days, it's likely time to talk to a health care provider about your options. 17 Thoughts Guys Have About Stretch Marks. Here's what 14 of them said. Posted by 5 years ago. Matt: I didn't know all of that beforehand -- that it was so weighted for her before we had period sex the first time -- but it's nice knowing it now. That kind of thing just makes me feel a kind of defiance, like, f**k you. Oh well someone might need one. Honestly, I think it took me being drunk that first time to be OK with it -- but it's something I've been comfortable with ever since. In all honesty, no. -- Jade,* 22. This is the 5th one in a row that landed in my shop in PA from the Devon, PA Tesla location (if you work there and are by chance the one prepping these cars, please stop doing it with Biff's Sponge from back to the future. Like, it's our own secret "gross" thing we do, I guess? Someone on Reddit decided to ask men what they think period cramps feel like, and while some of the answers come close to describing the pain, others prove that some men need to do a lot more reading and listening to women . There Is Such A Thing As Too Much Flow. 5. Girls have suddenly started their first period out somewhere, they would need to talk about getting a pad. My current, longterm boyfriend is curious about it more than anything else, and I really think a lot men believe period sex is disgusting simply because they aren't informed about it at all. Umm, talking about Tampons is very different from talking about the viscosity of your shit. Important conversations are happening now. It just made me feel so dirty that my boyfriend was basically sterilizing himself because of me. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast, More posts from the unpopularopinion community. Snot, old people fucking, so many different natural things are very disgusting. I distinctly remember coming home from school after they gave the puberty talk, and my mom told me that none of my younger sisters could know what I had just learned. Matthew's not wrong, fashion on TV is all about skimpy looks and attention-grabbers. It shouldn't be that way â you probably did mess up. He yelled "EW!" Part of HuffPost Women. We made it easy for you to exercise your right to vote! "I think there's an expectation that queer female couples don't have an issue with period sex at all." Like, just a few weeks ago I was in an elevator with a co-worker who is basically my age, and he kept asking me where I was going so I finally jangled my change for the tampon machine. Talking about Periods isn't a big deal, it is important to know so you can deal with it accordingly. Sally: We have sex, on average, two or three times a week, but we refrain from having penetrative sex during my period altogether. I absolutely hate when other women start talking about their periods. We drew hearts and swirls." It just feels more natural for both of us not to do it then. The answer to this depends on both the woman and the day of her cycle, â¦ I think I was initially put off by it more than he was. Periods are only one way humans are disgusting there's pleanty of others so why are you focusing on it? So is pissing. Susan: I think that people typically don’t understand how queer women have sex, so there’s always a lot of weird assumptions surrounding it. And human bodies are really strange places. If a man has foreskin and he doesnt bathe correctly a waxy dick cheese build up occurs beneath his foreskin. Why does a period have to be unnatural to be disgusting? Looks like you're using new Reddit on an old browser. We asked our readers -- both women and men -- how they feel about period sex and how those feelings play out in their sex lives. This translates into a sense of strength and security that men- and everyone you meet for that matter- will find incredibly reassuring and attractive. Now that I'm almost 30, I'm in a place where I'm much more comfortable with myself and my body, and I'm also much more aware that there's this huge culture of shame around women's periods. I get it. But what about human femalesâdo they do something similar to let men know when they're fertile? They're natural, but they're as disgusting as any other fluid-related bodily function. Basically, I think of my period as a time when I'm really turning inward, harnessing the unique energy and power of that time. To have to do that would just be incredibly unfair, IMO. Some partners think it's a total turn on. Men around the world have been known to throw out, âAre you on your period?â at the most inopportune moment. I would never ask someone to have sex with me then if they're totally grossed out by blood. But remember, the fashion you see on TV are really just costumes designed for performing. He just said "Ah, OK" and hugged me instead. "The scent of â¦ "Every time I had my period, I felt like my body was doing something wrong." So be sure to remind him how much you really do want him. 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